A cousin you have not seen in a long time comes to town for a visit. The two of you make plans to spend the evening together, which you are very excited about. When you get to the restaurant, you find that your cousin has brought a few friends along with him whom you have never met, and you are immediately disappointed. What is this emotion telling you?
a) You care a lot more about the relationship than your cousin.
b) You really value the time that you spend alone with your cousin.
c) You do not like your cousin as much as you thought that you did.
d) The relationship with your cousin is not as strong as you thought it was