Answer: Everyone has a different perspective and definition of what being a good friend is. What made me a “good friend” was learning how to listen how to put myself in someone else’s shoes. By that I mean we could never know what another person is going through, we could experience the same thing and it could emotionally impact us in different ways. I’ve also learned how to communicate my feelings, if I get frustrated by someone’s actions or words and don‘t speak up about it they might not know it bothered me to begin with, which usually leads to subconsciously being irritated around them, since you haven’t been communicating any of the things that have been bothering you to them. My biggest self-realization has been that a lot of people project their insecurities or their regrets myself including. I tend to get mad at people or frustrated without realizing why I usually conclude that they are making the right choices or the ones I wish I didn’t make in the past. It's either jealousy or my pride that gets the best of me. I call myself out and apologize once I notice the way I acted and why.
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(sorry i wrote too much I wanted to write something that you could change if you really couldn’t relate to it i tried to make it more of a general thing.)
