Hey there,
I believe that your correct answer would be that " some people will tell you what they think you want to hear ". When you ask someone about the perceptions of your person trait, they will most likely tell you what they think you want to hear because its what they want to make you happy.
For example: Jimmy ask billy "Am I fat Billy"
Billy tells Jimmy "No, Your not fat, you look just great".
But really, Jimmy is very fat.
The point is that people are going to say things that make you feel happy and something that you want to hear.
~Jurgen
